My Online Counsellor

COUNSELLING BASED IN Denbigh, wales

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My Online Counsellor

“Thank you for taking the brave step of reaching out for support, life can be amazing but it can also be tough.”

Counselling for Individuals & Couples (relationship/marriage guidance)

and for young people (Online, Telephone or Email)

Hello my name is Debbie, I am Psychodynamic qualified experienced Counsellor and a BACP member working in an integrative way in recognition that you are unique. I can help you using therapeutic methods such as: Transactional Analysis and Gestalt, tailored to your individual circumstances. I work online offering you a safe confidential space to explore the issues that are causing you unhappiness and holding you back from reaching your full potential.


I work online from North Wales and cover the local area of Denbigh, Wrexham and Rhyl and can also work with those who are further afield across the UK. I am qualified and experienced working with young people and adults who have endured Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). I also specialise in supporting people who are Whistleblowers or considering it. I work with individuals and couples who are experiencing relationship difficulties.

Welcome to an online world of support and growth right at your fingertips!

Say hello to online counselling, your personal toolkit for navigating life's twists and turns confidently and clearly. Whether seeking guidance through tough times or aiming to boost your overall well-being, online counselling offers a convenient, confidential, and uplifting way to prioritise your mental health. Let's embark on this journey together, where empowerment and positivity await just a click away! #OnlineCounselling #WellnessJourney #YouAreNotAlone.

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Online Couples Counselling with Debbie

Support for Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem, Identity & Emotional Wellbeing

Are you feeling distant from your partner? Arguing more than connecting? Perhaps you’re struggling with communication, emotional intimacy, or the impact of a betrayal.


As a qualified relationship counsellor, I offer online couples counselling across the UK, supporting partners who feel stuck, lonely, or unsure how to move forward.

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Whether you’re navigating:

• Frequent arguments or conflict

• Lack of emotional or physical intimacy

• Parenting pressures or life transitions

• Betrayal, trust issues, or infidelity

• Feeling more like housemates than partners


Counselling provides a safe, supportive space to explore what’s really going on, beneath the silence, the sarcasm, or the repeated rows.

🧭 What to Expect

I create a calm, non-judgemental environment where both partners feel heard, respected, and understood. Through gentle exploration and practical tools, we’ll:

• Improve communication and reduce conflict

• Rebuild emotional intimacy and trust

• Understand repeating patterns and stuck dynamics

• Support each partner’s voice and needs


🌍 Flexible Online Sessions – Wherever You Are

Whether you’re in the same home, different cities, or time zones apart, online therapy makes it easy to access support — no commute, no stress.


💬 Is This You?

Many couples I work with say:

• “We love each other but can’t seem to talk anymore.”

• “I feel more alone in this relationship than when I was single.”

• “We keep having the same argument on repeat.”

If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it doesn’t have to stay this way.


💞 Take the First Step

You don’t need to wait for things to get worse. Couples therapy can help you move from surviving to thriving, together.


🔗 Book a free 15-minute consultation 

Online Clinical Supervision for Counsellors & Therapists (UK)

Supportive, Ethical, and Rooted in the Seven-Eyed Model

Looking for clinical supervision that offers more than just oversight? I’m Debbie, a qualified online supervisor offering reflective, relational supervision to therapists and counsellors across the UK.


Supervision with me is a space to pause, process, and grow — professionally and personally.


I work with the Seven-Eyed Model of Supervision, which helps us explore client work, your responses, and the wider systems shaping the therapeutic relationship. It’s a powerful, integrative model that supports ethical, relational and embodied practice.

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🌿 Who I Work With:

• Trainee and newly qualified therapists

• Counsellors in private practice or agencies

• Experienced practitioners seeking deeper reflection

• Therapists navigating burnout, ethical dilemmas or stuckness


💬 What to Expect

My supervision style is warm, supportive, and quietly challenging. Together, we’ll explore the spoken and unspoken, helping you feel resourced, grounded and aligned with your values.


Sessions are held online, offering flexible, high-quality supervision wherever you are in the UK.


💛 Supervision That Feeds Your Practice

If you’re looking for a thoughtful, curious and collaborative supervisor — I’d love to hear from you.


🔗 Book a free 15-minute consultation 

Online Counselling for Teenagers & Young Adults (UK)

Support for Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem, Identity & Emotional Wellbeing

Being a young person isn’t easy. If you’re struggling with anxiety, low mood, friendship issues, family problems, exam stress or feeling like you’re just not good enough — you’re not alone. Counselling can help.


I’m Debbie, a qualified online therapist offering counselling for teenagers and young adults across the UK. I provide a calm, confidential space to talk openly, explore difficult feelings, and build confidence — at your own pace, in your own way.

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🌿 Common Issues I Work With:

• Anxiety, stress, and overthinking

• Low self-esteem and self-worth

• Identity or body image struggles

• Friendship and relationship difficulties

• Family conflict and communication problems

• Exam pressure and academic burnout

• Feeling stuck, sad, or emotionally overwhelmed

💬 How Therapy Can Help

Counselling offers space to be real — no filters, no pressure. I support young people to:

• Understand their emotions

• Build coping tools and emotional resilience

• Express themselves safely

• Feel more confident and connected


All sessions are held online, so they’re easy to access — from home, school, uni or wherever feels safe.


💛 You Don’t Have to Face It Alone


You don’t need to have all the answers. Starting with just one conversation can help everything feel a little lighter.


🔗 Book a free 15-minute consultation 

How can counselling help you?

Unexpected events in life can result in tough times and the difficulties that arise from them can overwhelm, be troubling, isolating. It really helps to talk, be truly understood and I aim to create a safe space for you do this. I am compassionate, empathic and work sensitively to understand and help make sense of how you feel. No matter how big or small people consider their problems to be, I think it is the person and how they feel about them that matters most of all.

I offer a free 25 min session to discuss what a positive outcome would mean for you and explore how we may work together to make your wishes a reality. Counselling isn’t about giving you solutions or advice but empowering you to make your own changes.

What issues can counselling help with?

Life can be full of challenges that can overwhelm us, such as; the issues listed below. Counselling can provide a safe and confidential space to help you break down troubling emotional events into manageable steps, working together to overcome and heal.

Whistleblowers

ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences)

Feelings of stress or anxiety

Panic attacks

Relationship problems

Grief, loss or bereavement

Problems with addiction

Abuse

Trauma and post-traumatic stress

Depression

Problems with confidence or self-esteem

Anger management

Issues relating to sexuality

Difficulties at work or in retirement

Problems with family or school life

Workplace bullying

Qualifications

I qualified in Psychodynamic Counselling in 1999.

I have certificates in various training, including supporting clients online and the telephone.

I have a diploma in Transactional Analysis and I have trained in CBT. I also have experience working with people sectioned for treatment with their mental health.

My location

I work online with clients from areas such as Denbigh, Ruthin, Bodelwyddan, Holywell, Flint, Connah's Quay, Wrexham, Rhyl and beyond.

Introducing 'Walk and Talk' Counselling and Clinical Supervision in Denbigh and surrounding areas.

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Fees & Availability

Individuals: £65 per hour session

Couples: £75

Concessions available for Students and low income - on application, please email for details.

Clinical Supervision: £45 per hour


Availability:

Monday - Friday 9am - 8pm

Occasional weekends appointments available.

I accept bank transfer and PayPal payments. Sessions not cancelled 48 hours prior will be charged.

Get in touch

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.


You can also call me on 07765941626 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.

All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.

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Testimonials

"I just want to say thank you so much for your help through this difficult patch of my life. It's meant a lot to me, and I'll always value

the lessons you've taught me. I wish you all the best in the future.

If I ever need help again I hope you don't mind me reaching out to you.

I'm forever grateful for the help."

C. H. Manchester


"I have been profoundly moved by the way Debbie understood me, right from our first session. Her insights, empathy and non-judgemental approach have been instrumental in helping me to understand myself better. Debbie has helped me take personal accountability for important decisions and to see with better clarity, amidst the fog of anxiety and personal challenges."

A.R. Birmingham


"I would highly recommend Debbie as a Supervisor - she really helped me work through some anxiety that I had about working with a couple for the first time, and had the perfect balance of listening to my concerns and initial observations of the couple, and sharing her thoughts, reflections and techniques around what could be useful. I found her reflections on culture and difference particularly helpful, along with noticing what could be my potential blind spots around them. Debbie is easy to talk to and its easy to feel instantly comfortable with her - I particularly appreciate her warm and friendly approach."


"The counselling sessions that I have had with Debbie over the past few months have been life transforming and really impactful. She has helped me get through grief, helped foster a sense of real communication and understanding as it pertains to my relationship with my fiancée and helped me understand myself better.


What even makes it more interesting for me was that I never really believed counselling could help me in a shape or form. I literally thought it would be a waste of time, till my fiancée recommended that I try counselling to help my grief and our relationship. We tried a counsellor in the first instance, and I wasn't particularly impressed and did not proceed after the first session. I then thought I would give it just one more go with another counsellor. And that's when I stumbled across Debbie. After the first session with her it was as if my whole world just started making sense.


I am eternally grateful to Debbie for helping me on my journey in this life at the time that I needed it the most."

KB

"Just a quick note to thank you so very much. I honestly feel so different this week. It’s hard to put into words but I feel like I have been sort of hypnotised into feeling much more like me. I don’t know how you have done it but it has worked.

I’ve written the letter and forgiven. It’s still there but it’s not clouded in some kind of darkness now. It’s just there and definitely more in the background. Consequently, I feel more robust somehow.

I can’t thank you enough. I have felt like you really cared and I’m so grateful. I’m so pleased I took that leap of faith. Your warmth meant that I trusted you and you enabled me to see it all from a totally different perspective. I could never have done that by myself.

I’m on holiday this week and the sun has definitely helped but I hope and think I can bring this sunnier side of Catherine home with me.

You are extremely good at your job and your clients are very lucky to have found you!"

Catherine Northumberland

"She listens to me and I feel supported. Great positive energy. I like her"

Written on Dec 05, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd.

"Debbie has been brilliant, she is a great listener and gives me little bits of homework that I would never have thought of and that has worked.

It's been really good looking back at my childhood to see how I am where I am now. Understanding where it's coming from is really helpful to restructure my way of thinking when this way no longer serves me"

Written on Nov 16, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, grief, eating disorders, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd.

"Although I have had very limited although this may be my first experience with therapy in general, I can confidently say that this is helped me a lot 🙂 Our interactions so far I can confidently say that at the end of my sessions I'm always smiling and I feel a sense of calmness and relief and inner peace."

Written on Nov 06, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and adhd.

"Debbie is a really empathetic and supportive person. I really appreciate her support and help."

Written on Oct 22, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 1 month on issues concerning relationship.

"Debbie is one of the good ones. A truly empathetic person who's passionate about helping people in need. I have new found hope on the future of my mental health and I'd recommend Debbie to anyone."

Written on Oct 04, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, and adhd

"A really sincere and great therapist."

Written on Sep 26, 2024 after therapy with Debbie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem.

"Debbie (Crew) was an absolute lifesaver over the 6 months of our therapy sessions.


She has renewed a confidence in me that I felt would never return. Her calm experience handled all of my emotional breakdowns with care and attention.

I would highly recommend Debbie to anyone experiencing mental challenges that need a friendly, strong hand to guide them. Thank you Debbie for giving me back my future."

Doug Antony

"Debbie has been a fantastic counsellor- each session she's provided valuable nuggets of wisdom that I've been able to reflect on and apply in my life. She's warm, receptive, attentive and very insightful.


We focused a fair amount on inner child therapy; teaching me to let go of learned behaviours from childhood that are no longer useful (or perhaps even detrimental) in adult life. I've been able to apply her teachings into my own life and have felt much happier and much more emotionally attuned than I have ever felt in my whole life.


The sessions can sometimes be emotionally heavy but they are so worth it, Debbie is a great positive guide in these calls! Trust the process, give it a fair try and you'll grow a lot from working with her. I definitely recommend her to everyone who's considering counselling/therapy."

Joseph Shawcroft

"Debbie worked with me through the pain caused by the loss of my parents. I was stuck in grief and struggled to move forward. At the end of our sessions I had resolved longstanding issues and felt at peace and able to start living again."

T.S

"I just wanted to say thanks so much again for our sessions. I really felt like you cared and you really have helped me."

Jessica Cheshire

"Debbie has been an amazing counsellor for me, every session I walk away feeling uplifted and positive about myself, she has helped me work through a lot of issues and is very accommodating. I always look forward to my weekly sessions and feel so relieved and stronger afterwards."

Rhiannon, Northampton

"I cannot say enough wonderful things about my counsellor Debbie. She is truly the loveliest woman. From our very first session, I felt an immediate sense of comfort and understanding.


Debbie's warmth and kindness create a safe space where I can express myself without fear of judgment.

She has an incredible ability to listen deeply and offer insights that are both compassionate and profoundly helpful.

What I appreciate most is her genuine care and dedication. She goes above and beyond to ensure that I feel supported, often following up and providing resources that continue to aid in my growth even outside of our sessions.


It’s clear that she is deeply passionate about helping others, and it shines through in every interaction.

If you’re looking for a counsellor who is not only highly skilled but also incredibly warm and understanding, I wholeheartedly recommend her. She has been amazing for me, and both my partner and I are in the process of booking some sessions together. I’m so grateful to have found her."

Jessica, Sep 2024

"Debbie has been absolutely excellent so far in my counselling! i honestly haven't connected with the few other psychiatrists that i've spoke to in the past but Debbie has been a breathe of fresh air for me and my journey through recovery and support. Debbie has brought out some serious issues which i knew were there but not in the perspectives that she had to which i've changed my viewpoint on them and improved in myself. I'll be forever thankful and look forward to my continued time with Debbie."

Brennan, Nottingham

"Debbie is amazing, she quickly put me at ease within minutes, she was very quick to understand my distress and the situation I am going through currently. Highly empathetic, I felt immediately understood and at ease. I came away from the session with confidence, her advice and knowledge has given me the clarity I needed. I am going to continue to finally resolve some deeply traumatic experiences, I know I can trust Debbie to guide me through these so I can finally come to terms with the sadness I have carried for many years. Debbie is just wonderful, I am very thankful she answered my request for help."

Joanna, Northampton

"Debbie has been an absolute godsend. I was hesitant about using a counsellor but I’m so glad I did!! It’s transformed my life. Debbie was so insightful, resourceful, kind and so easy to talk to. I’d highly highly recommend her to anyone. 5 stars all round."

Faye, Scotland

"I found Debbie to be extremely personable which made me feel at ease with opening up in the sessions. I really enjoyed it being a two way session where Debbie would listen but also question and she always gave me food for thought! Her sessions have really helped me address certain topics."

Sarah, Manchester

I came to Debbie as I was having problems committing to a relationship. We worked together to trace my difficulties back to life scrips, I adopted when I was a child after I witnessed my parents traumatic divorce. I was able to resolve my fear of being hurt and start dating again.

E.C, London

Debbie was a good listener and made us feel relaxed. She helped me understand the reasons I was drinking in my relationship with my partner. She is a lovely lady and I would recommend her to anyone who needed help.

[Addiction Therapy couple]

Julie, Cheshire

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